Say Bye to the Blues: Be Happy this Holiday Season

It is not news that depression hits hard during the holiday season. Regardless of how depression tries to rear its creepy head.  We can simply stare it in the eye and change the funk.  Yea,  light yourself up!!  Ignore the gloomy statistics.  Life is simply too short to miss any of it by being out of sorts.  So here is a list of some pick me ups:

  1. The minute, oops, no the second, you hear any gloomy statistics, or news…cut it off.  Just totally tune it out.
  2. Keep a journal.  Or just write notes to yourself of what you are happy and thankful for.
  3. The original intent of the holiday season it that these days are Holy.  The winter solstice, the stillness all around make it much easier to tune into your deep self.  Enjoy simply being with you.
  4. Focus on being, not so much doing.  Avoid crowds, booze, chocolate and other goo.  Eat clean and capture the specialness of the season.
  5. Craft special handmade gits.
  6. Give of yourself.  Find an organization to donate clothes too or help feed the homeless.
  7. Contact an organization that calls people  who are home bound and volunteer.
  8. Do you have any special holiday music that you like to listen to?  Belt out your favorite tunes and let ‘er rip.
  9. Light a candle.
  10. Place fresh pine or cedar by your front door.
  11. String up indoor lights for their pretty glow.
  12. Take a vitamin D supplement.  Most Americans are deficient and it will help divert seasonal affective disorder.
  13. Drink warm tea, green tea or warm water with fresh lemon juice.  Keep your belly warm.
  14. Keep a little sweet potpourri brewing and breath in deep the pleasant smells.
  15. Dance, treat yourself to some spicy Flamenco or do some jiggly belly dance.
  16. Go out. Social events are plentiful.  Find something that suits your rhythm.
  17. Wherever you go, leave a trail of *joy*.
  18. Peace starts with just one person, you.

Happy Holidays!

Be Happy with You

The majority of folks have heard the phrase, “be happy with yourself.”  Not new, right? Well, but are you?  Happiness  always seems to be just the corner.  It is on the plate for sure, but always seems to be the next course.  How often do we put something else on the plate for the next bite?

How are You Delaying Your Happiness?

Typical happiness delays include:

    I’ll be happy after I finish my degree,

      after I get a job,
      after I get a raise,
      after I “find myself“,
      after I have children,
      after the children are grown,
      when I lose weight,
      after I get that man or woman,
      after I move and so it goes, on and on…

    Until. 
    Until the day you stop. Stop trying to be amazing, unique, fabulous, special or any other “ego” supporting word you choose. The truth is, happiness is not something you have to earn or deserve. It is your birthright.
    Claim it.
    And don’t allow or permit anyone to take it from you.

    Cheers,

    Catherine

Discovering a Wonderful Way to Be

Like others over the years I’ve visited stores and stood in lines, often long, seen surly employees, who give short answers and seem like they’d rather be anywhere else than where they are. Are you happy being wherever you are? How do you find it to serve another?

I recently spoke to an elder woman and asked her about her work. She told me that she is a cancer survivor and is a retired physician’s assistant. She worked for 30 years in her field and loved it. The secret she beamed is to care about what you do. When her former patients see her they lament about how they miss her, because they knew she cared about them and did her best for them.

In talking to another elder he told me every day and every night he has one prayer…to die. I said, “a little depressed, huh.” He said, “yes.” Thoughts are powerful. My prayer for him is that he enjoy whatever time he has on his earth journey.

Earlier this year I had a problem and it took some months for it to be fixed. The supervisor and an employee were both patient and helpful. However some other employees were less than stellar and kept making errors. So I decided to go back in and speak to someone about it. As it turned out, the employee who helped before was there. I asked her name. I said thanks for all your help with this matter. She said she focuses on treating people the way she wants to be treated. Instead of being just a nice statement, she put it into action.

The life of each of use is connected with the life of those around us. What we do for another we do for ourselves.

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