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The Joy of Mindful Eating

by Catherine Carter

How high do you pile, that is, put food on your plate? It’s rather easy to eat more than you should. What I mean is that many of us continue to eat after hunger has been satisfied.

Do you find yourself saying, “I know I shouldn’t, but I’ll have just a little more”? Many Americans eat for any number of reasons, hunger may not be high on the list. Television doesn’t help, neither does radio, well ok, just about any media may could throw a wrench into your healthy eating plans. Many ads are as senseless as they are endless. Chocolate bars and candy are promoted as the equivalent of heaven on earth. Eating a pizza will bring the family together. Eat that prepared frozen meal and all of your sister/girlfriends will envy you!!

There are also a fair number of adults who feel as if they are immune to the subtleties of advertisement. And while there are instances where you may do fairly well, you may still find yourself undermined by pesky elements, such as low lighting, the color of the walls in a restaurant, or the size of the plate. What can you do? Educate yourself. I recently read a well written book by the Cornell University researcher, Brian Wansink Ph.D., the book “Mindless Eating” is compelling. The research is insightful. Another benefit is that the book is full of strategies and tips that will help you to eat with increased awareness. Your body will thank you.

Help for Emotional Eating


Isn’t the “mind” amazing? It has the ability regardless of one’s age, to continue to form associations.
These associative links inside the brain can be for good or not so good.

As we age, if we never take a look at all of these associations, it is easy to see how a feeling of being lost may develop. It is like being full of things that have no meaning, and within them you lose yourself. This sense of loss can show up anywhere. Is it because we are simply too full and really need to create inner space?

Food is often used to to abate, soothe, squelch, drown or otherwise turn on or off emotions.
Which leads to the question, “what are you hungry, for”? “What’s eating you?”

Take a look at these signals, from the authors of Think Thin, Be Thin. Is your hunger truly physical or a sign of something deeper?

Physical Hunger
- Builds gradually
- Strikes below the neck (e.g. growling stomach)
- Occurs several hours after a meal
- Goes away when full
- Eating leads to feeling of satisfaction

Emotional Hunger
- Develops suddenly
- Above the neck (e.g., a “taste” for ice cream)
- Unrelated to time
- Persists despite fullness
- Eating leads to guilt and shame

Relax…instead of eating, go for a walk, take a nap, take a soaking bath with fragrant oils, write your thoughts out on paper, draw, paint or just sit still and take a moment to simply, be.