“Trying to become like somebody else, or like your ideal, is one of the main causes of contradiction, confusion and conflict.
A mind that is confused, whatever it does, at any level, will remain confused; any action born of confusion leads to further confusion. I see this very clearly; I see it as clearly as I see an immediate physical danger. So what happens? I cease to act in terms of confusion any more.
Therefore inaction is complete action.”
-J. Krishnamurti, Freedom from the Known.